send me your bun and friend (and partner and pal and co) head canons,
in a situation like this, you REALLY need to ask yourself, “does the good outweigh the bad?”
if so, then talk to her. you need to let her know that the ups and downs are becoming confusing and that you’re hurting. maybe she isn’t doing it on purpose, maybe she doesn’t know. maybe she does know that she’s hurting you and she’s trying to make up for it sometimes, only to make the same mistakes again. but you need to find the reason or lack there of for your sake.
if you feel like the relationship is more bad than good, then you have to terminate it. it’s hard, i know, believe me. but it’ll be for your own good, and you’ll probably be happier when you do. even if it’s 49% good and %51 bad, you need to get rid of the bad. you don’t deserve to be treated badly by someone you trust, or by anyone for that matter.
but you can’t let it continue the way it is. if you truly believe she’s your platonic soul mate, then do what you can to repair your friendship. but speaking from my own personal experience, you have to really REALLY think this over. maybe she’s pushing you away for your own good, under the guise of not caring. or maybe she’s going through something on her own. make sure she’s ok??
i can’t really say what’s going on in her head, but when something like this happened to me, i ended up losing my best friend and i hurt for a long time, but now i feel 100 times better and i’m glad i got out of that toxic relationship.
everyone is the same, huh co? #draw